Life is Precious and Fragile
My mother passed in 2020 at 64 years old, and my father passed in 2024, a few months before his 72nd birthday. As a milestone birthday, my 40th in 2023 was one of deep introspection. It was difficult to enjoy the time, as my mind raced with the realization that I was already in the second half of life.
As humans, we traverse this world with a constant eye toward how to beat nature. In fact, our long modern lives are a testament to our ability to overcome natural limitations. Only a few hundred years ago, celebrating my 40th birthday would have been like celebrating my 90th birthday today. Yet, now, it feels like I have ample room to run.
All that said, I never noticed my vessel – my body – the way that I have after turning 40. With two years under my belt, I now fully understand that life after 40 is considerably different.
Mentally, physically, and emotionally, I’m different.
As a father of two boys approaching their teen years, I also have a different spiritual perspective. I feel more compelled than ever to build my legacy. I want to ensure that my boys have all the opportunities a parent can provide, without compromising their resolve to pursue independent production.
New Year Reflection
We’re entering the second week of the new year. To steal a term from Ed Mylett, this is “separation season.”
Motivation around New Year’s resolutions notoriously fades quickly as January wears on. This is a big reason I never look for natural breakpoints, like the beginning of a new week or year, to start executing my ideas. If the idea has merit, the next best step shouldn’t wait for anything.
Obviously, this blog is a big focus for me this year, but I’m also making big progress on some AI-centric strategies.
While many people see their 40s as a time to start harvesting, I believe it’s time to plant anew. My children need a role model who shows what hard and smart work looks like. They must learn the ways of the world in diligent practice – instruction alone won’t suffice.
What are you doing with the second half?